Personal & social development // Friendship & Cooperation
Listening to Others
Listen to others when they are speaking — looking at the speaker, waiting until they finish, and showing they have heard by responding to what was said rather than just talking about their own ideas
Quick check
When a friend is telling the learner about their weekend, does the learner actually listen and ask questions about it — rather than immediately jumping in to talk about their own weekend?
Ask this to see whether the topic is secure.
Topic // Mastery
What mastery looks like
- Face the speaker and maintain attention while someone else is talking
- Wait until the other person has finished before responding
- Respond to what was actually said rather than changing the subject to their own idea
Topic // Map
Where this fits
- RequiredMust come first
- HelpfulHelps, but not essential
Before this
2 topics- Vocabulary: working with othersRequired
Friendship & Cooperation // Ages 5 to 8
Active listening practice requires understanding the vocabulary of listening, agreeing, and disagreeing respectfully
- Listening and respondingHelpful
English // Speaking & Listening // Ages 4 to 11
SEL listening skills build on curriculum speaking & listening foundations
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Listening to Others
Ages 5 to 7 // Method
Leads to
3 topicsFriendship & Cooperation // Ages 7 to 9
Resolving disagreements builds on listening to others
- Working Well in a GroupRequired
Friendship & Cooperation // Ages 7 to 9
Group work builds on listening skills
- Asking for HelpHelpful
Friendship & Cooperation // Ages 5 to 7
Asking for help benefits from knowing how to communicate with others
Topic // Standards
Curriculum standards
- IB PYP Personal, Social and Physical Education (PSPE) Scope and Sequence
- PSPE.INT.P1.LO.3
Personal & social development // Friendship & Cooperation
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