Personal & social development // Self-Regulation & Resilience
Coping with Life Changes
Understand that change is a normal part of life — such as starting school, getting a new teacher, a new baby arriving, or moving house — and identify simple strategies that help them cope with changes
Quick check
When something changes in the learner's life — like getting a new teacher at school — can they talk about how it makes them feel and think of ways to help themselves adjust?
Ask this to see whether the topic is secure.
Topic // Mastery
What mastery looks like
- Name at least two changes they have experienced and how they felt
- Identify a person they can talk to when a change feels hard
- Describe one strategy that helps them cope with change, such as keeping a familiar routine
Topic // Map
Where this fits
- RequiredMust come first
- HelpfulHelps, but not essential
Before this
1 topic- Words for Big FeelingsHelpful
Self-Regulation & Resilience // Ages 5 to 8
Coping with change draws on vocabulary like 'cope', 'strategy', and 'settle'
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Coping with Life Changes
Ages 5 to 7 // Concept
Leads to
1 topic- Resilience and Bouncing BackRequired
Self-Regulation & Resilience // Ages 9 to 11
Resilience concept builds on coping with change
Topic // Standards
Curriculum standards
- IB PYP Personal, Social and Physical Education (PSPE) Scope and Sequence
- PSPE-ID-LO-P2-7
Personal & social development // Self-Regulation & Resilience
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